Handling+the+Break+Up+of+Relationships

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By: Steve Duck**
 * Handling the Break-Up of Relationships

By: Sofila Vaidya**
 * Workshop: April 08, 2009 (On Wednesday)





There are many emotional feelings involved when one is in the relationship. People go through many ups and down. No matter how long we have been in relationship with the person, we will be feeling minor irritations and trivial hassles that arise day by day. If we don't talk clearly about the problems we have about our partner, than things might often go wrong in all sorts of ways and can cause lots of pain and will hurt. When the things starts going wrong between partners, break up isn't the first option. There are different phases which we go through, each with a characteristic style and concern. Typically there are four phases that people experience when they break up. We can also put things in the right ways before the things really gets worst. Understanding the good and bad effect of the phases will help us take the right decision.

In this Workshop, we will be taking a closer look at the four phases that people go through when they are breaking up. They are; **Intra psychic Phase, Dyadic Phase, Social Phase, Grave Dressing Phase.** I am sure that everyone in the class will be able to relate with it. Because we have heard it, seen it or have experienced it in some way or the other. This part of the relationship is very much talked about in everyday life. We will also be learning how to make things good before we make it bad to handle. In the other word it is **__“repairing.”__** As I have said above, each phases compliments both the sides. It depends on the situation. It also depends on the person (we or our partners). But most importantly, it depends on the time. It takes time to make a relationship as well as breaking up.

In this essay there are informations, which we might have never knew about so literally. I myself was amazed to know the terms for different phases. The author of the essay Steve Duck has done a very good job in explaining those phases and it's importance. He has broke down those phases so that we get the clear idea about it and as well as to relate to it.

My main target for this workshop it to get the information about the break up of the relationships to my audiences and develop the discussions over this issue. We will also be learning that “__**good communications**__” is the most important part in the relationship.

Please review the essay **“Handling the Break-Up of Relationships”** under the chapter 10, “Conflicts: Turning walls into bridges.” I am looking forward to this exciting Workshop.

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